Taking Relationships for Granted

During our second degree meeting, Sifu Brinker made a comment on how we take the relationships of our black belts/ instructors for granted. 

When you first hear that you may think we are taking advantage of them but that was not the context.  We are not appreciating the gift of having them available.  We might be “waiting” until a better time to ask a question, to seek advice, to talk with them.  We are losing out on the opportunities that are right in front of us.  Losing out on knowledge that they have. Not appreciating the miracle of having them in our lives.  

Stewart Emery said “When we speak of miracles, we speak of events or experiences in the real world that are beyond the ordinary”.  We are learning an ancient style of martial arts by masters in our lives, in Canada, in Alberta, in Stony Plain.  How can that not be a miracle?  It is definitely beyond the ordinary.

Being reminded that we take relationships for granted couldn’t have come at a better time.  I was camping with my family.  I haven’t seen my siblings since before the pandemic and we have VERY different views on things but this reminder really gave me a different mindset.  I did not argue with anyone, I did not get upset because I know that things can change in a heartbeat and if I take relationships for granted I will miss out, I will have regrets.  Sifu’s conversation was a perfect reminder at the perfect time. Thank you Sifu!

What relationship are you taking for granted? What miracle are you missing out on?

See you on the mats!